Take Back Control
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Continue to listen without judgment
Encourage professional help
Stay involved
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Instead of showing frustration with your loved one and lecturing, it’s important to realize that they are a victim experiencing trauma. Talk it out and be gentle with the person.
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Please see the Reestablish Financial Footing section for specific instructions based on account types.
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Call in a technical resource to clean the device (e.g. Geek Squad at Best Buy or someone trusted in your community.)
Note: IF the device is really old, consider getting a new device, it may be cheaper than trying to remedy the old device.
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DO NOT mention the incident on social media AND be wary of anyone reaching out on social media to you to ‘help’ you resolve your issue (e.g. ‘attorneys,’ credit services, etc.) - they are very likely scammers, too!
DO NOT engage with any company touting themselves as a ‘recovery company’ - these are not legitimate organizations.
BE WARY of anyone who may be impersonating law enforcement (local or federal such as the FBI) promising to trace or recover money- for a fee or various costs.
For a full list of suggestions on how to prevent revictimization, please see “Moment-of-Truth Instructions for the Senior”
Key Points:
Continue to listen without judgment
Remain vigilant against further fraud attempts
Encourage professional help
Re-establish financial footing
Stay involved
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